By Karen Beranek As youth development professionals, building relationships with youth, their families and our co-workers is such an obvious part of our work, we may not put much thought into it. We know asking youth about their day or something big happening in their lives is a great conversation starter or check-in question. We have all likely heard the quote, "No one cares how much you know until they know how much you care", most often attributed to President Theodore Roosevelt. As a 4-H Youth Development professional, the 4-H Thriving Model was the focus of my most recent blog post . At the very foundation of this model is research led by the Search Institute , grounded in the concept that relationships matter. The Five Elements of Developmental Relationships show us how we can focus our conversations while building relationships with young people. Express care - Show me that I matter to you. Challenge growth - Push me to keep getting better. Provide support - He
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